Jared is a generation after mine. Like so many kids in Santa Barbara, he grew up loving Shorty’s, the hometown skateboard brand that went worldwide. While I was travelling and filming the Shorty’s team in the late 90’s, he was in high school. I didn’t know him during that time. I mean I may have met him, but it wasn’t until many years later that I really got to know him.
I moved to Ventura for work in April of 2019. I lived alone and only had a couple of friends in the area. Mostly I just went to work and went home. Occasionally I would go out on a Friday or Saturday to check some live music or watch the Dodgers at a local bar. Every once in a while I would see Jared on the streets. Usually walking with a backpack, smoking a cigarillo.
One of these times, he ended up right in front of me so I said hi. From that point on we hung out fairly regularly. He lived in Oak View, which was about 15-20 minutes from my house. He didn’t have a car so it was only if he happened to be in Ventura that he would usually hit me up. Mostly we would just meet up for a beer or two, but every once in a while we did some pretty fun shit. Seeing George Thorogood at the Ventura Fair was pretty epic.
Sometimes Jared would walk me home. I lived pretty far down The Avenue so at first I thought it was unnecessary. But at some point I realized, this guy was watching out for me. I have to admit, it made me feel a little old. Ha. But I quickly realized Jared had my back. That was him to a T. Watching out for us. Plus to be honest, walking The Avenue alone at 2am is not really the safest choice.
Jared and I often talked about hiking the Ojai backcountry. It’s vast and there are so many cool spots back there. So after a little research, and talking with some friends that knew of some cutty spots, we headed out one day to find a swimming hole…
“The Bear Bathroom”
Ok. I’m usually really good with directions and my instincts are sharp. But this was a rare occasion that I wasn’t. We drove into the Ojai backcountry down a long road to a dead end. The trail started at this dead end. We walked along the riverbed about a half mile to where the trail split. This is where we messed up. To the right, there was a sign that said no trespassing. Just before reaching this sign, two guys were coming down the mountain from the left hand side trail. As they approached I asked them if the swimming hole was up that way. One of them said they didn’t know but they thought so. They hadn’t gone very far because there was a Rattlesnake in the middle of the trail. We said thanks and decided (mainly because of the no trespassing sign) to take the left side trail.
We never saw the rattlesnake. The trail started getting steep pretty quickly. We saw a little swimming hole but it was very shallow and early on the hike, so we pushed on. I know from friends that the hike was about 5 miles to the swimming hole. Since Jared had travelled by foot extensively in the military, and I have done plenty of skate/bike/foot travelling of my own, we were both on the same page of how far we had gone at any given time. Phones had no service so we couldn’t check that way but we really didn’t need too.
As we went on, the trail got steeper, and we went further and further into the wilderness. It was hot and my shirt was drenched. The river that went along the left of us was now hundreds of feet below and bone dry. We were officially in the middle of nowhere.
We would come across a tiny spring here and there, but for the most part there wasn’t much water, and being so high up in the mountains, we started to realize we most likely went the wrong way. We felt like we were getting close to the 5 mile mark so we decided to hike at least that far and then turn around.
It was about this time I saw a pile of shit. Very quickly my brain went, “Human? Deer?….. Bear.” The berries in the pile were a dead give away. I didn’t think much of it and kept on. That last half mile or so of hiking we saw a few more piles. Eventually we both agreed we had hiked more than 5 miles and since the trail was really starting to disappear into the tall grass and forest, we stopped in a small clearing and sat down to eat. We were both pretty beat and kind of disappointed we didn’t find the swimming hole.
As we sat there eating our store bought sandwiches and drinking tall-boys (of course), I noticed some junk laying around. First was a sleeping bag. Next, was a foil balloon and some other trash. I remember thinking it was odd that this stuff was so far back in the woods but really my mind was on getting back down the mountain and accepting defeat.
We zipped up our backpacks and started the trek back down. About 5 minutes later we ran into two girls on the same mission as us. We told them there was nothing there and the trail basically ended, but they went on to check for themselves. We hiked back down to the car and then randomly went to see my old friend Noe who just happened to be visiting from Colorado. I was sunburnt and tired so the meeting was quick and off to home I went.
It wasn’t until we were in the car and relaxed that I realized what had happened. We had hiked to a bears bathroom! It all started to make sense. There was bear shit everywhere in that clearing. The sleeping bag was in the bushes. Not just IN the bushes, but PUSHED into the bushes. The balloon, the human trash that I originally though was left behind? I don’t think so. A bear brought that stuff there and had his little pile. The kicker is that around the time that we noticed the first pile of bear poop, we both heard a noise. Initially I thought it was a motorcycle. It was a low rumble. But the sound cut off quickly and it would have been extremely far away. We both came to the conclusion it was either a bear or a mountain lion. Running into an animal like that would have been no bueno. One side of the trail was a drop off consisting of hundreds of feet. The other side was too steep to climb.
We had many laughs about that hike in the days to come. Totally skunked on the swimming hole and hiked to a bears bathroom. Too classic. We also eventually figured out that we should have went right where we went left and that we were gonna get back out there and do it right some day. Unfortunately that day will never come for Jared. I’m gonna miss that guy. He walked step for step with me many times. A man that truly had my back.
If Jared was still here, I would only want to ask him one question… “Hey Jared, do you think those chicks got eaten by the bear?” Haha. Much Love. Rest in Peace my friend.
-Erik